On Monday we celebrated 7 years of marriage. That’s something to celebrate. We’ve grown A LOT in these 7 years! See, when we went through pre-marriage counseling our counselors told us something we will NEVER forget:
“You two are the 2 most opposite people we have EVER seen in our 25 years of marriage counseling experience. Good luck”
I was a whopping 20 years old at the time and thought ‘whatever, I laugh in the face of a challenge.’ Stupid, stupid stupid. Those first couple years were rough. Rough in the sense that we learned very quickly that marriage takes work. Give me a topic, ANY topic, I can promise, with about 99% certainty we are different.
He’s a night owl, I like to get up at 4 am.
I’m a runner, he’s a biker.
I like vegetables, he likes steak.
He uses discernment when he speaks, I well, I don’t.
I fart, A LOT. He farts about once a day.
Just to give you a few examples…
But 7 years later I can say, with confidence, every ounce of effort has been worth it. I married the perfect man for me. He challenges me, encourages me, and just loves me for who I am, with all my flaws.
My Bae, you mean the world to me, I love you with all my heart. Happy 7 year Anniversary! Here’s to another 57…
And to celebrate, I made cake. I combined a few our favorite things: s’mores, cookies, cake, frosting and cheesecake. Because of course, we don’t have the same favorite dessert. I like cake and he likes frosting. But between the 2 of us, the plate will be licked clean.
7 years means I need to make a 7 layer cake? At least that was my logic behind NEEDING all the layer.
Here’s what you’ll need for this cake:
2 brownie layers
2 cheesecake layers
2 chocolate chip cookie layers
5 graham crackers (this is one of the ‘cake’ layers)
1 recipe for marshmallow frosting
1 recipe for chocolate Frosting
A few notes about this Ultimate Anniversary Cake:
1. These are the best brownies I’ve ever made. I’ve made Ina’s Outrageous brownies. And those are delicious, but they are VERY fudgy, and are not a brownie EVERYONE likes because of the oober fudgeyness. These King Arthur brownies, these are the perfect combination between fudgy and cakey. And they have that shiny, thin crunchy top, like a good brownie should. Make the brownies alone, and bake them in a 9×13 inch pan, or divide the batter in half, like I did for this cake, slice it into wedges and serve with berries, ice cream and chocolate fudge. Whatever you do, BAKE THESE BROWNIES!
2. The chocolate frosting, it’s like the kind you scoop from a jar, you know the stuff. Betty Crocker, Duncan Hines??? Come on, you know you probably have a jar in your cupboard right now. But this is 100 million times better. It’s a similar texture and consistency: smooth, creamy, rich. But no fake chemicals in it, yea! It spreads wonderfully too. As I was making it I told my husband “I found the only chocolate frosting recipe I may ever use again. It’s so perfect, why try anything else?” I mean, I know I’ll try others, but dang, this stuff is truly to-die-for and easy also.
3. I have 3 cake pans that are the same size (9 inch springform to be exact). So I used those 3 to bake the brownies, cookie and cheesecake, to make sure they were all the same size round. I lined the bottom of each pan with parchment paper to make it easy to remove each layer. And then I sprayed the parchment with non stick spray.
4. Everything on this cake is homemade, nothing from a box (ok, the graham crackers, but shoot, I’ve made those from scratch before…) But to make this easier, you can make the brownies form a box, or buy jar frosting. But let me tell you, this won’t be NEARLY as good.
5. In case your brownies or cookie get slightly crispy, it’s ok. The frosting and around the cake will help soften them back up as it refrigerates and sits. Let this cake refrigerate for at leats 1 day before serving for maximum flavor results.
I brought this to work, like I do a lot of desserts, and this is the only dessert EVERYONE has complimented, people are even posting pics on their face book pages. PEOPLE, this cake will blow your mind!
Brownie
Adapted from King Arthur Flour Fudge Brownie recipe
2 sticks unsalted butter
2 1/4 cups sugar
4 large eggs
1 1/4 cups Double-Dutch Dark Cocoa or Dutch-process cocoa
1 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon espresso powder (I used instant coffee)
1 tablespoon vanilla extract
1 1/2 cups All-Purpose Flour
2 cups chocolate chips (I used semi sweet)
Directions
Preheat the oven to 350°F. Lightly grease 2 round cake pans (or a 9×13 inch pan for a standard batch of brownies).
*Grease the pan AFTER you add a piece of parchment, like the note above says.
In a medium-sized microwave-safe bowl, or in a saucepan set over low heat, melt the butter, then add the sugar and stir to combine. Return the mixture to the heat (or microwave) briefly, just until it’s hot (about 110°F to 120°F), but not bubbling; it’ll become shiny looking as you stir it. Heating this mixture a second time will dissolve more of the sugar, which will yield a shiny top crust on your brownies.
While the sugar heats a second time, crack the 4 eggs into a bowl, and beat them with the cocoa, salt, baking powder, espresso powder, and vanilla till smooth.
Add the hot butter/sugar mixture, stirring until smooth.
Add the flour and chips, again stirring until smooth. Note: If you want the chips to remain intact in the baked brownies, rather than melting in, let the batter cool in the bowl for about 20 minutes before stirring in the chips.
Spoon the batter into the cake pans.
Bake the brownies for about 30 minutes, until a cake tester inserted into the center comes out clean, or with just a few moist crumbs clinging to it. The brownies should feel set on the edges, and the center should look very moist, but not uncooked. Remove them from the oven and cool COMPLETELY on a rack before frosting or cutting (if your making normal brownies)
Cheesecake
1 1/4 pounds cream cheese (20 oz), room temperature
1 cup sugar
1 tsp vanilla extract
3 large eggs
1/2 cup sour cream
Preheat oven to 425 degrees. Using an electric mixer, beat cream cheese on medium until fluffy, scraping down side of bowl. Gradually add sugar, beating until fluffy. Beat in vanilla extract. Beat in eggs, one at a time, scraping down side of bowl after each addition. Beat in sour cream.
Put a piece of parchment paper on the bottom of a springform pan, spray with non stick spray. Pour half of the filling in each pan Bake for 15 minutes, then turn the oven temp down to 325 and bake for an additional 45 minutes.
Remove pan from oven, let cool 20 minutes. Run a knife around edge of the pans to loosen from the sides; let cool completely. Cover with plastic wrap and freeze until ready to use.
***UPDATE***
I’ve received some e-mails that the baking time for the cheesecake layered has resulted in over baked cheesecake. While I haven’t experienced this, try baking your cheesecakes for about 1/2 the time and check and see if they’re done… then continue baking if they need it.
Chocolate Chip Cookie
Used my favorite chocolate chip cookie recipe , spread half of the batch in each cake pan and bake at 350 for 10-12 minutes, until it’s slightly golden. Not TOO golden or the cookie will be crispy, and you want a soft cookie in the cake.
Chocolate Frosting
Recipe adapted from Sweetapolita
Ingredients
6 ounces unsweetened chocolate, melted and cooled (I let it cool about 1 hour, stirring occasionally)
4 1/2 cups confectioners’ sugar (no need to sift)
3 sticks (12 ounces) unsalted butter, at room temperature
6 tablespoons milk
1 tablespoon vanilla extract
Directions
Place all of the ingredients in a food processor and pulse to incorporate. Process until the frosting is smooth.
Marshmallow Filling
Recipe from My S’more Refrigerator Cake
1 jar (7 oz) marshmallow fluff
1 stick butter, room temperature
1 cup powdered sugar
1 tbsp vanilla extract
To make the butter cream, beat together the marshmallow fluff and butter, on medium speed, until the mixture is smooth and fluffy, about 3 minutes.
Reduce the speed to low, add the powdered sugar and vanilla, and beat for another minute. Increase speed to medium and beat for another 3 minutes until it’s light and fluffy.
Assembly
Place one layer of brownie on a cake stand. Frost brownie with with marshmallow frosting. Place a cookie layer on the marshmallow filling. Spread cookie layer with marshmallow frosting.
Remove cheesecake from freezer, unwrap, and remove from metal bottom of the pan from each piece, then peel off parchment paper.
Place cheesecake layer on top of the marshmallow frosting.
Spread a layer of chocolate frosting on cheesecake. Layer graham crackers on the cheesecake. You’ll have to break up the crackers to make them fit. Spread chocolate frosting on grahams, then place the second layer of cheesecake on the chocolate frosting. Spread cheesecake with marshmallow frosting
Then place the remaining cookie on the frosting. Spread the cookie with marshmallow frosting and put the remaining brownie on the marshmallow frosting. Spread the remaining chocolate fudge frosting on top of the cake and on the side.
Refrigerate until ready to serve. Remove from the fridge about an hour before serving to help it come to room temperature slightly. Because this cake is SO dense, when it chills, it gets even denser and takes a little muscle to cut.
Yes, I came up with cake all on my own. Of course I found inspiration from other sites (and I credited sites I used recipes from), but in the end, this is MY creation based on my husbands deep love for S’Mores. He loves them, with all his heart! I made another s’more cake, last year for his b-day. Not NEARLY as intense as this one though :)







I'd be married to anyone who makes cakes like this!
Cute post.. Congrats you two!
This is awesome. Let me just be sure about something. Did you bake the cookie and brownie layers in 9" round cake pans instead?
o.m.g. that looks AMAZING! is this from your brain? did you just make this up? amazing. this should be for sale somewhere.
also, how did you know i have been looking for a chocolate frosting recipe? perfect!
i am drooling over here. hope your happy about that.
oh and congrats on 7 years!! it's hard work but totally worth it :)
Too amazing!! Happy Anniversary to you!! :)
Congratulations on your anniversary! What a wonderful milestone.
Reading about you and your husband reminds me of my own marriage in that we are total opposites. Somehow, it's a good balance, and it just works. I worry too much; he needs to worry more. I eat too healthy; he needs to eat more vegetables. It's an interesting balance.
-Emily
Every. single. opposite example you gave, my boyfriend and I can relate. I don't understand how he farts only once or twice a day.
AND, this cake looks.. decadent. Delicious. BEAUTIFUL. Lately, I've been into making a s'mores variation of everything (tarts, bars, cookies, ice cream, etc), but I haven't made a cake yet. I think I'm going to make this to celebrate.. something of importance. Or maybe just because.
I absolutely love your blog and your story today about your husband really helped me out. my boyfriend and i are complete opposites on every subject known to man and i just moved in with him. Its hard! like really hard. we are learning but since we aren't at 7 years it doesn't seem fast enough. lol i want to do pre-marriage counciling but yet again that is another subject we defer on. lol Anyways, thanks for your story and i am sooo excited to try this cake. i am too a fat girl trapped in a skinny body. have a great day.
This is gorgeous! It was inspiring to read about how opposite y'all are. I might have to ask you for marriage advice soon :)
LOVE IT
HOLY! I like the way you think…and I wish I worked where you work!
Congrats on 7 years!
Oh my! You must have put so much effort into this cake – it's intense. And of course it had to have everything under the sun in it, because you had to agree on SOMETHING, haha. I fart and my boyfriend hardly ever does! Must be a girl thing, lol.
Just mouthwatering, great job!! Unlike marriage looks like there were no compromises made with this baby… congrats to you and your hubs!
As the person who both enjoys life with Julia and eats her food creations on a daily basis, let me just say… Julia out did herself on this one. I love you wifie. Everyone else… make this! Just save up your insulin, this cake isn't for those looking for a small treat.
Congratulations on seven years of wedded bliss! And creating such a special cake.
Happy 7th year anniversary! An amazing confection for an amazing occasion. Hopefully, despite your differences, you both like cake. ;)
Congratulations!! What a way to celebrate! I am dying to make this now. Holy cow. It looks A-MAZING!!
wow – that's one serious cake and a heck of a lot of work and very unique
Congrats on your 7th anniversary.
…. I'm raising a toast and wishing you many more
Happy Anniversary! That cake looks amazing. The fart comment about made me roll off of my chair with laughter, but I can relate to the total opposite-ness (yeah, I like to make up words when there is a need ; ))
How cute :) What a great cake to celebrate such an awesome occasion!
I officially know what I want as my birthday cake and I seriously cannot wait. Can I celebrate two months early?
CONGRATS on the marriage and I must ABSOLUTELY try this cake. s'mores are my weakness and this looks sooooo beautiful & amazing ughhhh I want it NOW.
the hard part i would have is actually letting it refrigerate for a full day! NOT gonna happen in my kitchen! mmmm
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you have officially blown my mind. i'm almost 3 years into my marriage and there is no way i'm waiting until year 7 to bake this baby! way to go!!!
Just amazing!
Julia – I alway love how candid you are! I'm so glad you refrained from farting when we were carpooling to LA :) This cake looks amazing and what wonderful reasoning to have 7 delicious layers of goodness! Happy anniversary!
Oh man….this is awesome!! :D
I found your cake via Pinterest! I send my husband(who used to be a chef) all the yummy recipes I come across and he makes them for us! Definitely going to send him this one. Congratulations on your 7th anniversary in June. We just celebrated our 25th in May and we are total opposites, as well. Doesn't God plan it that way so we mellow each other out? We are also from California (LB).
I honestly would LOVE to make it, but Im afraid (not lazy)to put in the effort into making all these lazyers and one of them not turning out right. I LOVE how it looks and just looking at it makes my mouth water.
Do you take cake orders? :P
Thanks for the sharing… your background story abt marriange and all makes it very nice to read (also cuz Im in a relationship with a girl who's the opposite of me)
Have fun
Ron
Ron- Yes, in fact I do take orders! If you're seriously wanting this cake (and live locally?) e-mail me. juliakrystine@yahoo.com
AND THE ULTIMATE CHOCOLIOUS AWARD GO TO …… The look SUPER YUMMY!!!!
Girl, I am all over it. I am making this for our 20 yr anniversary coming up soon. The first place we lived was Costa Mesa-small world. Congrats, 7 years is a milestone for sure!
My I be so bold as to mention a sermon series by Mars Hill Church here in Seattle? It has been so awesome for us-even after all these years and really helpful for all marriages-it talks rather-ahem-blatantly about all the big stuff. Anyway, just trying to plant a seed. Each video can be accessed from this link. God bless you and your marriage! http://marshill.com/media/the-peasant-princess/preview
Wow wow wow, this looks completely amazing…I love anything s'moreish! Thanks for sharing..it's my 4th anniversary coming up soon, perhaps I could reduce it down to a 4 layer cake – or maybe not!
Taking inspiration from you (thank you), I did my version:
chocolate mud cake
hazelnut cream
cheesecake
s'mores rum cream
chocolate cookie
s'mores rum cream
cheesecake
s'mores rum cream
chocolate cookie
hazelnut cream
chocolate mud cake
Additionally, the mud cake was moistened with peach brandy.
You can see it here
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=262395800454601&set=pu.116335351727314&type=1&theater
Yum. Thanks for the idea! :)
Did you tell the counsellors to speak to MC Skat Cat and Paula Abdul?
I follow your blog and thought i’d let you know I love ALL things you share :)
I made this fabulous cake for a neighbours birthday in Sept. and it was a great hit!! Everyone is still raving about it and ask when am I making it again… Thanks again for sharing!!
I just found this cake…Holy Cow! This looks awesome! I’ve got to try this one! Thanks so much for sharing!
Hi i was informed of your cake yesterday and well I made it today.. Now i never claim to be a baker lol but almost everything turned out right and it was pretty good just one question how did you get your icing to look so dark and thick my didnt turn out like that and i guess i just dont like homemade cheese cake or maybe i made it wrong it had a tart taste to it? Any tips would be great i would like to learn to bake and make icings.. here is a pic of the cake i made!
http://www.facebook.com/tjnkami/posts/275271522539762?notif_t=feed_comment#!/photo.php?fbid=275289282537986&set=a.160547030678879.42704.100001707499463&type=1&theater
Kami- Your cake looks perfect! I can kinda see the inside in the picture. The frosting looks good too, not too light. The lighting in my picture might just make the frosting look darker. If yours tasted good, sounds like you hit a homerun! If your cheesecake was too tart for your taste, try adding some more sugar (start with 1/4 cup) and see if that is better for you. So glad you enjoyed it!!!! :)
Holy Moly! I’m going to make this even though it looks like a lot of work! thanks for sharing.
can you just make one for me and i pay you? this looks so yummy but way beyond my baking attention span… ;o)
Wow. This looks amazing. I want to make it for Valentine’s Day, but I have a question. Did you do the cheesecake layers in springform pans and the other two (brownie and cookie) in regular cake pans?
I did everything in springform pans, so that all the layers would be the same size and I wouldn’t have to trim the edges. Well, I’ve now made this cake a couple of times, and 1 time I didn’t use springform pans for everything, and trimming the edges was such a pain. So I suggest using the springform to make it a little easier on yourself. Enjoy, let me know how it turns out :)
First off, Congratulations on 7 years of marriage!
Bud & I are close to celebrating 8, I was 19 when we got married and the world told us we would never last since we got married so young.
Well phewy on them, God had a bigger plan!
Second, Smores are my favorite and a smores cake…well my teeth hurt already and I am trying to think if I should make this now and eat it all by myself or wait until our anniversary in a few months and make it then….decisions decisions! ;)
Biz
Happy 7 yrs. We are now at 33. And it never gets easy. But keep on the journey. As you both get closer to God you just get more and more in love because HE is LOVE–and the love just gets better and better. One reason I have found why we women may get more gas than men is that we tend to be more lactose intolerant. I need to watch how much dairy I get. Or it can be other allergens. Sometimes it is worth finding what allergen it is that our body doesn’t like. Anyway, this cake is fabulous. I am giving my husband a reception for getting his master’s degree–a 5 yr. feat–this summer when our daughter and her little family are here from Honduras where they are missionaries. They really want to be a part of it. And I will appreciate her help. I think this cake may be the one. Not sure how to make it serve a lot though. But it sure is a winner. Thanks for your blog.
Hmmmm…sounds like an ideal 60th birthday cake for my “someone special” ;)
Making this today for my fiancé birthday tomorrow wish me luck
Can I just pay you to make and ship the cake to me…lol. There’s a lot of steps in this cake, but it looks fantastic.
This is such a great idea, however I had a problem when making it. I followed the cheesecake instructions, however I went to check on it during the 45 minutes half way through( after already baking it for the 15 minutes on 425), and thankgod I did because it was more than done and the tops began to brown! I think you may have made a typo.
Just wanted to say I made this recipe the other night and featured it in my blog, hope you don’t mind! Thanks for the amazingly creative and delicious idea! Also, I love your blog, we seem to have quite similar tastes and ideas!
Wow! What an awesome cake. Can’t wait to make it for our next Crochet/Crafty night with the girls! Nothing goes better with crafting than chocolates!
Congratulations on the years of marriage & owning up to your gas! I love the looks of this cake and think that this will be the birthday cake I make for my (hopefully future husband) boyfriend this year. But if I keep doing such awesome cakes now – what will I do when we get to 7 years!?!
I’ll definitly try this one. Thanks!
I just came across your cake and it looks so amazing. I’m wondering if you would mind if I posted it on my blog…with credit being given to you along with a link to your blog of course. I’ve book marked yours as one of my favorites…mine is just stuff I love from others, but always giving credit where credit is due. :)
How cares if you fart all the time..if you can cook like this!! I will be making this one day. Thanks for passing on these wonderful recipes.
my sentiments, exactly ;)
I made this cake last night. Bakers beware!! This does not only take a little muscle to cut, this takes some real muscle! I didn’t read the part to take out out of the fridge for an hour before cutting HAHA! Definately a good suggestion. I followed the recipe exactly, the only two problems I had were with the marshmallow butter cream and the chocolate frosting. On the chocolate frosting I let my chocolate cool too much and it did not incorporate fully. My frosting was a very pale brown with lots of dark specks. The only other problem I had was with the marshmallow frosting. There wasn’t enough!!! Double the batch people, that stuff is AMAZING! I will be making that frosting again. And to think, I was scared of the marshmallow puff. This recipe is insane though, make sure you have plenty of friends to share it with :)
Christina- So glad you liked the cake AND thanks for coming back to let me know!
Julia, I addicted to sweets, but have been trying to lose some weight, so I probably won’t be trying this recipe any time soon, but it looks totally awesome! I’m sure this would be something my family would LOVE! How long does it take to make? It sounds like a long and drawn out process, but it looks totally worth it.
Thanks for sharing!
Made this cake last Friday. Took me all day as I had the’help’ of my 2 and 5 year old for the entire process. They even did the final decorating touches…star shaped sprinkles in pastel colors on top with tall pink candles. The cake was for my daughter’s 5th birthday celebration. Turned out PERFECT. And that is a HUGE compliment to you, because I am far from a talented baker.
My daughter kept telling people all evening that the cake has seven layers. Clearly blew her mind :)
I do have a question for future reference…my cake turned out quite tall (which was a nice look and not a bad thing at all)…but I would like to know if there is a trick to making the layers thiner. I used 9in pans as you recommended.
Thanks again for sharing this fabulous cake recipe.
R
Happy Birthday to your daughter! As far as the cake being tall, well, it’s just a big tall cake. You can make the layers thinner by slicing the baked layers in half length wise, or spreading the batter out between more cake pans before baking. But the final result is meant to be a huge cake.
Love your blog name and this cake looks fantastic – I emailed the recipe to my Mom already!
This was rich and delicious! I doubled the marshmallow frosting and chocolate frosting so I could make it as 2 separate cakes using extra graham crackers so both cakes would have the same layers.
I found a campfire top on pinterest made out of melted and hardened butterscotch and cinnamon candy with Pepperidge Farm Pirouette cookies. This week was my test run. I am making it again tomorrow for a lunch at a campsite on Saturday. Super excited to show it off!
Ahhh…. Help! I’ve been dying to make this cake ever since I first saw it. I’m in the middle of making it and I’m having problems with the chocolate chip cookie part. I followed the recipe and put it in my springform pans and not only did they take almost 25 minutes to cook, butter leaked EVERYWHERE! I’ve never seen so much butter. The bottoms of the cookies were covered in the butter, as was my oven. What did I do wrong?!
OMG…. after just typing this, I went back to the recipe and took another look. I used 3 sticks of butter! hahahahaha No wonder I had butter everywhere!!!
Guess I’ll start again! I’ll let you know what we thought of the cake tomorrow! Thanks so much for letting me type/vent and figure it out on my own!
I’m glad you figured out what the issue was. I hope the final cake turned out :)
My niece is a s’mores lover and she is turning 7 in May! This cake looks perfect and my husband and I love to bake together. Plan to try this for her special day! Thanks for sharing your awesome idea!
I found this via Pinterest, so THANK YOU! I would like to make this for Easter but would like to omit the cheesecake. Any suggestions? You you substitute a different layer or just forget it altogether? Thanks!
My first thought is to make an extra batch of the brownies or cookie. Second thought is to use your favorite cake recipe in place of the cheesecake layer. As long as whatever you replace it with is only 2 layers, the frosting will still be enough.
If you eliminate the cheesecake all together, you might have some extra frosting. At that point, just grab a spoon and start eating it! ;)
I made this cake last night for church. It turned out awesome! I admit I used brownie mix from a box and purchased store bought chocolate fudge brownies. It was funny how amazed everyone was at the cake. They kept saying, “wow! it must have taken forever to make this.” it really wasn’t that bad…. thanks for the idea!
i meant chocolate fudge icing :)
I’m glad you made it, even if you did use box mix. I bet everyone was so stoked that you put so much effort into a dessert, for them! That’s what counts! Nice job!
Just made this for my niece’s 7th birthday! Her fave summer treat is s’mores! I wrote Happy Birthday Aspen on the top and added a little s’mores guy- graham cacker with 2 stacked mallows and a smiley face…she is excited!!! Thanks for the recipe sharing.
Maybe it’s the climate/altitude here but I baked everything from scratch as directed (lots of money and quite time consuming) and it was DRY. The brownie portion worked out best as far as directions are concerned but I think you need to review the cheesecake portion for sure. There isn’t enough batter for the baking temp/time directed. My cheesecakes were over done in half the cooking time (I use gas appliances). The cookie portion was just too “cakey” of a recipe for my taste buds- but to each his own – I thought it was the driest, most disappointing, layer of the cake. The butter creams were great. All in all, I think in concept of the recipe is interesting but I will definitely have to revamp it. I made this for a large gathering, tasted it, and threw it in the trash. (I bake for income and didn’t think this reached my standards). :(. For those interested in making this cake I suggest using your tried and true recipes to bring this together and forget the honey graham layer – its just lost in translation.. Thanks for the inspiration though!
This is the biggest and best cake ever. I tried making it last night and 4.5 hours later I was done! It has to weigh 8lbs! Thanks for the recipe and keep them coming!!!!
Jane, YEA, so glad you enjoyed the 8 pound monster of a cake ;)